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Their Inbox is Not Sacred
Why Your Fear of Emailing is Killing Your Business
Every entrepreneur has had this thought: “I don’t want to annoy my audience.”
They hesitate to send emails. They worry about unsubscribes. They treat their prospects’ inboxes like temples, afraid to step inside unless invited.
And that’s exactly why they’re losing money. In this edition we dive into why this myth is killing your business…
Let’s dive in.
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The Inbox is NOT Sacred. It’s a Battleground.
Somewhere along the way, this myth was born.
The idea that an inbox is a delicate, personal sanctuary. And that sending marketing emails is some kind of unforgivable intrusion.
However your prospects' inboxes are already filled with marketing messages.
Brands they love, brands they tolerate, and brands they’ve never even heard of are in there fighting for attention right now.
If you think that staying silent is somehow “respecting” their inbox, guess what? You’re just making room for someone else to step in and take your place.
Every time you hesitate, a competitor moves in.
Every time you hold back, someone else steps forward.
Your audience is bombarded with messages, so the only way to stay relevant is to be present, consistently delivering value and staying top-of-mind.
Unsubscribes Are Not Your Enemy
Entrepreneurs fear the unsubscribe button like it’s a death sentence. But here’s the truth: an unsubscribe is just a filter that helps you refine your audience.
If someone leaves your list, they were never going to buy from you anyway.
What’s worse than someone unsubscribing? Being forgotten.
When you fail to show up in your audience’s inbox, you fade into irrelevance. Your email list isn’t just a numbers game—it’s a relationship game. And relationships require communication.
The most profitable businesses in the world send emails regularly. Why? Because frequency equals familiarity, and familiarity breeds trust. People buy from brands they know and remember. If you’re afraid of sending too many emails, you’re missing the point.
Instead of fearing unsubscribes, fear being invisible. Fear having an audience that doesn’t recognize your name when you finally do show up.
The Inbox is an Invitation, Not a Fortress
Your audience wants valuable content. They want solutions to their problems. They willingly gave you their email address because, at some level, they’re interested in what you have to offer.
So why are you acting like you need to apologize every time you show up?
Your emails should be powerful, persuasive, and unapologetic. If someone doesn’t want to hear from you, they’ll opt out. But the ones who stay? They’re the ones who will buy.
Think about the brands you engage with the most. They don’t whisper their offers—they present them boldly. They don’t worry about “bothering” you—they focus on serving you.
Your job isn’t to tiptoe around your audience’s inbox. It’s to earn your spot there by providing consistent value, insight, and opportunity.
The Right Mindset Shift: Email as a Gift
Instead of seeing email as an intrusion, start seeing it as a gift. Your expertise, your solutions, your offers, they’re valuable. They can solve problems, ease frustrations, and even change lives.
When you withhold emails out of fear, you’re actually doing your audience a disservice. They need what you have to offer, but if you don’t show up, they’ll never know.
A well-crafted email is not spam. It’s not an annoyance. It’s an opportunity.
An opportunity to educate. To inspire. To sell. To transform.
Start Showing Up
If you’ve been treating your prospect’s inbox like sacred ground, it’s time to shift your mindset. Your email list isn’t something to tiptoe around, it’s a tool to drive sales, build relationships, and establish authority.
Send the email. Make the offer. Take up space.
Because if you don’t, someone else will. And they won’t be as hesitant about it as you are.
Your move.
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